Not losing it, doing the most important thing you can with weather stations. Carefully consider all your placement options before committing yourself. Most importantly consider what you want most from the readings, temperature and derivatives or wind and derivatives. That will help you decide between the two places. For my ha'perthworth I would say stay as far away from the building as possible. Only in that way can you get the most from your readings. When measurements originally began many years ago they were often done inside of a room with the window left open, it was soon discovered the effect the building had on the results. If you are bothered about the effect of the pool on your readings , well drain the pool, weather comes first!!!!!!! Just joking.
It does seem you are stuck between a rock and a hard place with those draconian rules, and it not an enviable position to be in. If you are careful though you may be able to factor out the effect of the pool if you can compare your results to another local, preferably professional weather station. It would soon give you an idea as to the amount of effect the pool and its environs affect your result. You could also take a more pragmatic view inasmuch as the pool and all the other things at your house are the things that affect 'your' weather. If you have no hankering to put your data on line etc but are just interested in your own very local weather then site as best you can for the wind and the temperatures will follow.
Best wishes
Mike